
Every student I have taught has known the importance of talking, and yet the vast majority never spend any of their free time on this simple activity. Every year I start my class off by trying to explain the importance of talking to my students and every year most of the students ignore it, but those who don’t, those who take an active effort in their own learning outside of class, are the ones I see the biggest improvement in.
There are many excuses for why people don’t talk more, but they are just that, excuses, not reasons. Quickly to get them out of the way:
“No one to talk to!”: This is a common excuse, but if you have no one to talk to, that’s because you aren’t trying hard enough. If you live in a big city there is almost certainly foreigner sections of the city where you could go find people to talk to. If you are too shy or your city isn’t that big, I’d bet there are still English corners around full of Chinese people who want to speak more, go find them! If you are even too shy for that, talk to your friends, tell them you want to set up an hour a day where you all speak English. Or if you are English majors, start acting like it and make English a part of your daily conversation! If your friends refuse, you’re too shy to make new friends and too shy to find foreigners, talk to yourself! You can help yourself greatly which we will talk more about in a moment.

Join an English corner!
“No time to talk!”: Everyone has time, the important thing is properly ordering your time in a day. When going from your home to work or school, what are you doing? Nothing. Speak English. When sitting on the bus or in your car going to a friend’s house, what are you doing? Nothing. Speak English. While waiting in line at the bank for an hour, what are you doing? Nothing. Speak English. Use every spare minute you have when you are doing nothing to talk! There is no one on earth who doesn’t have time to learn a new language if they are using their time well.
“No environment for English learning!”: This may be true but the question then should be, who created your environment? You did. Yes it would be easier to create an English environment in Canada or England but if you need this talk you obviously aren’t there yet. If you want to go there, it’s not impossible but you do need pretty good English before you arrive! But don’t despair! You can make an English environment anywhere you are! Surround yourself in English, English books, English movies, English music, English, English, English. Have a cellphone? Turn it to English. Have a computer? Use English Windows/Linux/OS X! You don’t turn your phone to English to learn new words, you turn it to English so everytime you look at it, you are reminded, “Right! English!”

Sticky Notes are your friend!
If you want to get really crazy, and while I don’t like Crazy English because it’s leader LiYang is a disgusting human who beats his wife, Crazy English did get one thing right, those who succeed at English are those who go that extra crazy step beyond everyone else to learn, buy some sticky notes. These are little pieces of paper that you can pull off and stick to things, you can see them in the picture on the right. Take those sticky notes and on the paper write “Door” and put one sticky note on every door in your house at your eye level. On another note, write “Ceiling” and put it on the ceiling right above your bed. Another “Computer” and put it on your computer. Label everything. Again, you aren’t learning new words, you’re reminding yourself that you need to speak and think English. The first thing you see before going to sleep? English. The first thing you see when you wake up? English. If you want an English Environment, make it!
“I’m too shy!”: This is probably the only one that is an actual reason, but you need to get past it. If you’re shy it will effect every part of your life, you wont have as many friends so you wont get as much help to succeed. You wont talk as much so your boss wont notice your contributions so you wont get as many promotions. Shyness hurts your chances in life so you must find ways to get past it! What I did to get over my own shyness is start small, you don’t have to go out and make a speech on the public street everyday, though if you can that would be very great! Instead start by deciding that everyday you will talk to one person you didn’t know. Or once a week you will have a conversation and get to know one new person. Start small and build bigger. Once you start to talk to people, you’ll find people aren’t so bad, they mostly are quite friendly and happy to talk! You’ll make more friends and that will just encourage you more! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a quiet person, I’m still a very introverted person, but sometimes you need to be able to talk, and learning a new language is one of those times!
A good page on how to stop being shy. Is there anything ehow.com doesn’t know?!
So, there go all the excuses, though if you have anymore let me know and I’ll tell you why they don’t matter
, now let’s look at what you should be doing!
What To Do:
Talk. That’s it. Really! Just start talking!
What to talk about:
Everything! Pick a topic, any topic, and start talking. Fingers! Fingers are a strange part of our body, long and thin they evolved to be useful for picking things up, I wont why ducks don’t have fingers, maybe they never need to pick anything up. But if they did have fingers they could more easily eat the bread people give them. And talk and talk and talk.
My students often tell me that they don’t know what they should talk about, what do you talk about in your native language? That’s what you talk about. Hobbies, sports, news, movies, politics or anything else you enjoy. Be aware who you are talking to of course, if you don’t know them well than politics or religion would be a bad topic, but for friends, you should know what your common interests are, talk about them. If you aren’t friends yet, become friends by finding your common interests with questions like
“Do you enjoy sports?” If so “Which ones?”
“Have you seen any interesting movies lately?”
“Did you hear Adele’s newest album?”
Once you have a topic, don’t stick to it! My students always want to discuss a topic and if someone say something off topic they will scold them or remind them to talk about the topic, this is not necessary! If you want to practice a topic, then yeah, it’s a good idea, but usually when we talk we let conversations move from topic to topic! Read my article on “Expansion of Thought” for more on that.
The thing that I find worries students most about talking is that by talking they will be practicing bad English, in China we call it Chinglish. This is partly true, but it’s better to have good Chinglish than bad English. Every country and culture has their own form of English, yes it’s better for your job if you can speak fluent “standard” English but Chinglish shouldn’t be feared. What you need to practice is your ability to think in English quickly and smoothly. The more you talk, the more comfortable your brain will be with thinking in the language!
Vocabulary: Speaking is the fastest and easiest way to remember new words, take the words and use them in your conversations as much as possible. This is one time that topics are useful, take a topic, learn the vocabulary about that topic and then talk about that topic using that vocabulary. Everyone learns new vocabulary through repetition, sitting at your desk repeating the same word 100 times everyday. That’s incredibly boring and your brain does not remember things when it’s bored. Learning through speaking is faster, easier and more interesting.

Bored VS Boring
Grammar: Hard to learn Grammar through speaking but very important to practice grammar through speaking! Take a phrase or sentence that you know is good and repeat it. Use that sentence as often as you can and in as many different situations as you can. You want to repeat it out loud so your brain hears it and registers it as the proper way to say something. Make a grammar mistake? Go back, correct yourself and make sure you repeat it a couple times a day for two or three days, you wont forget it again. Don’t forget to laugh at yourself, sometimes grammar mistakes are funny, if someone laughs, laugh with them! Enjoy learning. I often ask students and friends “What are you doing?” and they often reply “Nothing, I’m very boring.” “ing” is for things, class is boring. “ed” is for you, I am bored.” when they say “Nothing, I’m very boring.” I always reply “Yeah! You sure are boring!” and they’ll get angry at me for laughing at them, you need to laugh too! Through laughing you will learn and next time someone asks, you will remember to say bored because you don’t to look silly again!
In general, speaking practices everything with a new language and is the most powerful tool you have so get out and start to use it! Stop making excuses, stop being shy, stop worrying about Chinglish or bad Grammar and just get out, meet people and talk to them! Join English corners and talk to them! Find foreigners and talk to them! Find a dog and talk to it! Look in the mirror at your own beautiful face, and talk to it! Just talk!
Speaking Recommendations:
Video Lessons: Try speaking what is said in these video lessons for practice! Or use them for ideas on what topics to talk about with others!
Fantastic Phrases: These phrases are used in the English language and great to know, so get out there and start practicing!
QQ Group: The QQ group has lots of people who love to practice English, get to know them and talk with them! Some more voice based options will be coming soon!
English Corners: Find them! If you are in Beijing I’m looking to try and start some here soon and there is already some at most major Universities. If you’re outside Beijing, probably your city has them too, if not find some people and start one! Don’t wait for others to do things for you! Get out and do them yourself!
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